They're Not You: Understanding Your Spouse's Unique Wiring

This episode explores how couples often assume their spouse thinks, feels, and reacts as they do, leading to misunderstandings and pain. Using real examples, Paul shows how differing emotional wiring affects conflict and connection.

He encourages couples to ask questions, explain their patterns, offer grace, and sometimes change behaviours when differences cause harm—reminding listeners that partners aren’t right or wrong, just different.