Are Holiday Obligations Hurting Your Marriage?

Paul explores how holiday obligations can strain a marriage and urges listeners to examine their motivations—whether they enjoy activities, feel obligated, are people‑pleasing, or acting out of duty. He warns against emotional blackmail and codependency and recommends honest conversations with your spouse about motivations and boundaries.

The episode also covers navigating family dynamics, friendships, and workplace expectations, advising honesty about why you attend events and agreeing to address unhealthy patterns. Doing marriage well during the holidays often takes extra work, clear communication, and mutual understanding.